When it comes to love, there are many things we need to sacrifice…even senses that are built in us, we have to be ready to be impaired to all things innate in us.
BE BLIND (sense of sight)
when it comes to the matters of the heart you have to be blind, blind to the truth that no matter what you do, there will come a time that people will try to ruin your relationship and if you are in love you have to bare being blind to all things that will hurt you… yes it will be hard, but as i always say… when you love somebody you have to overlook every single imperfect thing that he/she is made of. Even shaky mountains have slopes where we can slide, but when you are in love, you have to inculcate every single day that there will be cliffs and unwanted rocks that will try to ruin your ride, but hey it is love, just be BLIND.
BE NUMB (touch)
You have to forget that you are human and you have to remove your sense of touch internally and externally… be numb,YES it will take a lot of work to do it, but you’ll eventually get use to the fact that you are hurting or you’ll always cry away your pain on your own. You cant always be sensitive, you have to bare the pain that goes with it. Its like taking care of a wound, you have to get use to the scar and own it…because at the end of the day itll always be a part of it and no matter what you do, being numb is the only way to go on with life.
BE UNDERSTANDING (taste)
Being understanding is like not being able to taste the flavor of a sorbet, or being able to savor the butter in your popcorn. This is how you are meant to swallow in your pride, that all you have to do is to bask in the crunch of every single crisp while you are in love. There will come a time when you’ll experience doing everything you are against with, remember the times when you used to scold friends because they are being stupid? and that they can’t go on without their partners? yes, i warn you, it’ll eventually happen to you, everything you said to them will one way or another happen to you, not exactly that way your friend had, but you’ll have your moment. Even falling in love and being in love with somebody who hurts you again and again, i know you’ll understand it or you’ll try to… You even have to swallow every bitterness of what the flavor of your relationship is in… Whatever it may taste like, when you are in love you’ll eventually be willing to relish every single complications there will be.
BE DEAF (hearing)
In love and out of love, you always and you will eventually be deaf, deaf to all the things that may hurt you, you have to let the negative thoughts of a relationship in and out in each sides of your ears, just let it pass…why? just because. Even choosing who you want to fall in love with you and even making decisions of why you want to do it, will eventually leave you to moments that you want to think it over because you heard rumors or you felt that you’re not hearing what you want to hear from him or her. Just be deaf and still listen to your heart.
WHIFF EVERYTHING (smell)
In love, you have to learn to whiff every single scent in every moment you are in, whether you are stuck to being in a bitter scent of being stupid or to moments that your love one starts to be stuck in the stage not being loyal. You have to acquire the skill of enjoying the smell of sadness at times, there will be episodes in your life that youll have to hold on to what there may at the end of a series, which we may call LOVE.
last but not the least… here’s another ingredient.
BE STUPID (intellect)
Yes, you read it right, you must always be ready to numb away your intellect, there is no other way to do it… you must play stupid at times, even though it hurts like hell and your brains says that you should stop it because youll eventually be hurt and will ruin your being forever. Coz, just because.. when your heart says that you have to, you really have to.
Being inlove impaires you to every humanly senses you have,sometimes itll be like dreaming an old movie without sounds or torturing your self with eating a tasteless donut. thats how it feels, but always remember that it is still your decision if you are willing to undertake every single steps or every single tortures that come your way. You may take the high road or stroll the long bumpy one…. but always remember that “HE” will not give you anything you can’t handle, there will always be one person destined for you, i know that some people already spent their lifetimes looking for love, there are also people that may have already given up on it…but always bear in your heart that there is also another person finding you… we might not know WHERE he/she is, WHEN will you lay your eyes upon him/her or WHO he might be…but always remember that our lives are but a mission to find our missing piece our other half.
N.
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